Once, i have this discussion with friend of mine about bounding/attachement.
Human will attach himself with something in his surrounding. to make a comfort zone. To feel safety, comfortable, protected. But when you are bounded, you should be careful, none would last forever. Friend could be gone, separated by time and space.
Just recently, i spoke with one of Indonesian artist, Katon Bagaskar, he is. He is so deep thought person, yet very positive. Seems to me that he has gone along with thought and experiences that he come to this conclusion that everything is not long last forever, even friend.
Bound with something is good, but you should be ready to let go. Friend are always there for you, but do not expect he/she would always available for you for he/she would also have another bound. I see that this would applied to everything.
conclusion: bound yourself, for man could not live alone. But be sincere, when things don’t get as you would wanted it to be. Confused? Well, i do thing this post need more wording. 😀