Story of bound

Once, i have this discussion with friend of mine about bounding/attachement.

Human will attach himself with something in his surrounding.  to make a comfort zone.  To feel safety, comfortable, protected.  But when you are bounded, you should be careful, none would last forever.  Friend could be gone, separated by time and space.

Just recently, i spoke with one of Indonesian artist, Katon Bagaskar, he is.  He is so deep thought person, yet very positive.  Seems to me that he has gone along with thought and experiences that he come to this conclusion that everything is not long last forever, even friend.

Bound with something is good, but you should be ready to let go.  Friend are always there for you, but do not expect he/she would always available for you for he/she would also have another bound.  I see that this would applied to everything.

conclusion: bound yourself, for man could not live alone.  But be sincere, when things don’t get as you would wanted it to be.  Confused?  Well, i do thing this post need more wording. 😀


  1. #1 by thimoet on November 25, 2008 - 3:50 pm

    i disagree..
    why can’t it last forever? some bound maybe not long lasting but others are. time will tell.

    what about family? you are eternally (at least in this world) bound by the fact you are sharing the same blood. however you may dispute or hate very much dislike each other, you still share the same roots.

    “Friend are always there for you, but do not expect he/she would always available for you” – agree with this, you can’t expect someone to be available for you always, just like you can’t promise other you’ll be always available for them.

    yes, i do believe that something are bounded for life.
    though you are separated by time and place, that bound still exist.

  2. #2 by dtrisnadi on November 25, 2008 - 4:10 pm

    Thank you for the correction.

    what i am trying to say is a bound is a bound. How the the bound work would not always work as you pleased.

    Some people even threat their friend as their possession. None could create bound with their friend without them knowing it. That’s actually happen.

    A friend might too busy with their marriage that they could hardly spare their time with you (or work). And you could not expect them to meet your need. Some people are just having difficulty with this kind of situation.

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